Episode 120

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26th Jun 2025

Triangulation: A Toxic Relationship and Family Pattern

This episode delves into the toxic pattern of triangulation in relationships, particularly within family dynamics. The hosts discuss how triangulation manifests, its impact on emotional health, and the importance of direct communication. They provide strategies for recognizing and breaking free from this pattern, emphasizing the need for awareness, setting boundaries, and doing personal work to foster healthier relationships.

Takeaways

  • Triangulation involves pulling a third person into a conflict instead of addressing it directly.
  • This pattern can create significant emotional distress and dysfunction in relationships.
  • Children often become unwitting participants in triangulation, which can harm their emotional development.
  • Enmeshment and triangulation are closely related, often leading to blurred personal boundaries.
  • Recognizing triangulation is crucial for breaking the cycle and fostering healthier communication.
  • Setting clear boundaries is essential to avoid being drawn into triangulation.
  • Direct communication is a key strategy for resolving conflicts without triangulation.
  • Personal growth and self-awareness are necessary to break free from unhealthy patterns.
  • Triangulation can perpetuate generational dysfunction within families.
  • Healthy relationships thrive on clear, direct communication and emotional honesty.

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