Episode 53

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7th Feb 2024

Parenting Stress on Couples & What To Do About It w/ Colleen O'Grady

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In this episode, Sharla and Robert are joined by author, coach, and licensed therapist Colleen O'Grady for an insightful discussion on parenting, relationships, and the impact one has on the other. We talk about the challenges faced by parents, with a special focus on how these stresses can affect a couple's relationship, citing a statistic that 67% of relationships experience extreme dissatisfaction within the first three years of parenting. 


The episode presents practical solutions for maintaining a strong connection despite the strains of parenting and shares proven strategies for managing life transitions. Apart from that, we also explore the importance of rituals, appreciation, love maps, and turning toward each other when experiencing challenging times. Tune in for this valuable discussion whether you are a parent, considering becoming one, or someone seeking ways to smoothen life transitions with their significant other.


Today you’ll hear about:

02:37 The Impact of Parenting on Couples

03:42 The Importance of Relationship Skills

03:54 The Influence of Childhood Experiences on Relationships

06:37 The Role of Conflict in Relationships

11:59 The Importance of Understanding in Conflict Resolution

19:52 The Role of Friendship in Maintaining Connection

24:36 The Importance of Rituals in Relationships

25:13 The Importance of Daily Rituals in Relationships

25:19 The Power of High Fives and Hugs: Non-Negotiables in a Day

26:03 The State of the Union: Weekly Meetings for Connection

26:22 Stress Relieving Conversations: A Daily Ritual

27:21 The Role of Rituals in Strengthening Relationships

28:09 The Importance of Intentionality in Relationships

28:37 Turning Towards Each Other: A Key to Connection

29:04 The Power of Turning Towards in Difficult Times

33:19 The Power of Bids for Connection

37:36 The Role of Love Maps in Navigating Relationships

39:45 The Importance of Staying Current in Each Other's Lives

41:49 The Importance of Appreciation in Relationships

42:41 The Impact of Appreciation on Emotional Bank Accounts

47:04 The Power of Pride in Relationships

48:51 Final Thoughts and Advice for Parents


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