Controlling Our Spouse: Losing Relationship Strategies #2

"Control isn't real. It's an illusion... Each of us has this fundamental need for autonomy."

In this episode, we discuss the destructive pattern of controlling others in relationships. Controlling behavior is often a result of managing our own anxieties and insecurities. They provide examples of overt and covert control tactics, such as criticism, blame, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation. The hosts emphasize that control is an illusion and that it damages trust, intimacy, and autonomy in relationships. They encourage self-reflection and open communication with partners to address and overcome controlling behaviors.

Takeaways

• Controlling behavior in relationships is often a result of managing our own anxieties and insecurities.
• Examples of controlling behavior include criticism, blame, guilt tripping, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation.
• Control is an illusion and damages trust, intimacy, and autonomy in relationships.
• Self-reflection and open communication with partners are essential to address and overcome controlling behaviors.

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