Episode 23

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12th Jul 2023

Building Love Maps in Relationships: Nurturing Lasting Connection and Intimacy

{Get the guidebook that accompanies this episode: "Building Love Maps Guidebook, a practical guide to rich and meaningful conversations}

Even the best therapy in the world won't work if it only focuses on conflict and fails to focus on building friendship and positive systems of affection with your spouse. 

In today's episode, Robert and Sharla introduce a skill to help you create a deeper and more fulfilling relationship with your partner. 


This skill, known as "love maps," was created by Dr. John Gottman. Love maps refer to the knowledge and understanding partners have about each other's inner worlds, including their likes, dislikes, dreams, and aspirations.


Robert and Sharla delve into the fascinating realm of love maps and explore how this powerful tool can enhance and strengthen relationships.

 

They discuss the importance of building,  maintaining, and updating love maps and how these maps contribute to fostering intimacy, emotional connection, and long-lasting love.


By sharing harrowing personal stories and practical tips, Robert and Sharla offer valuable guidance on creating love maps with your significant other. 


From deepening understanding to sparking meaningful conversations, this episode unravels the transformative potential of love maps in nurturing thriving relationships. 


Join us to learn about another skill that will help you take your friendship and intimacy to a new level. There is a companion guide that goes along with this episode, which can be downloaded here.



"Building love maps means taking a genuine interest in your partner and making mental space to be able to store information about their world." ~ Sharla Snow

  "It’s important to keep returning to these love maps. Return and update. Update your knowledge about yourself and each other." ~ Robert Snow



In This Episode:

- What to do after managing conflict in your marriage to restore friendship and connection

- What are love maps? 

- Why the transition into parenthood is difficult for most couples 

- What to do to prevent your marriage from deteriorating when having a child

- How to focus on your love maps and not neglect them 

- How to build a love map from scratch 

And so much more!


MYM Resources:

-Building Love Maps Guidebook, A Practical Guide To Rich and Meaningful Conversations (A companion guide to this episode)

- 8 Pillars Of An Exceptional Marriage - ​​https://masteryourmarriagepodcast.com/8-pillars


Resources mentioned:

- Book “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert” by John Gottman PhD and Nan Silver - https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718 



Connect with Robert and Sharla Snow:

- Website: http://masteryourmarriagepodcast.com/

- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/masteryourmarriage/

- Facebook - http://facebook.com/masteryourmarriage

- TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@masteryourmarriage

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Master Your Marriage
Experiencing deeper love, passion and connection in your relationship
The average couple waits 6 years to get help in their marriage. That's 6 years of pain, hurt, frustration and lost opportunity.

This podcast is designed to help you NOT become a part of that statistic.

Hosted by Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow — themselves married for 31 years — The Master Your Marriage show is here with straight-talking guidance on how to fill your marriage with fun, friendship and love, without it ever feeling like "hard work."

No matter how long you've been struggling with your marriage, or how long it's been since you've felt that "spark," we promise you, there is hope!

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